This is the one thing we
desperately need the most, and the one thing we most resist. We need support.
Some things in life are just too hard to do on your own. We need people to come
along side of us and encourage us. Whether you are dieting, or exercising, or
trying to change a bad habit in your life—we all need people in our lives to
support us, encourage us, and to ask us some hard questions about whether we
are really following through on our commitment to change. This is going to be
hard when it comes to our finances.
• 82% of us have never discussed
our income with another soul.
• 89% of us have never discussed
our family budget with another person.
• 92% have never discussed what
we have given to the church.
Get this: The people who are
least likely in this country to talk about their personal financial matters are
Christians.
People who rarely go to church—1
out of 4 of them admit that they have talked to their friends about how much
money they make. Do you know how many Christians have done that? 1 out of every
8
Christians don’t talk about this.
In fact, we don’t talk about a lot of stuff that really matters in our day to
day lives: Sex, money, parenting, jobs. Let’s pop the top off our dirty little
secrets and start holding each other accountable. Let’s start encouraging and
edifying one another; life and money troubles are just too hard to go at it alone.
It is important in the spiritual
life to keep an open mind, open to ideas, experiences, people, the world, and
the Sacred. Openness is an ability to go with the flow, as Taoism puts it,
without expecting predetermined outcomes. It means being receptive to new
possibilities, without prejudging them. It is an ability to make yourself
available to out-of-the-ordinary opportunities. Indeed, openness to the
unknown, the exotic, and the bizarre is usually seen as the mark of a free
spirit.
How available are you to others?
How interested are you in people, especially those quite different from you?
How flexible are you? Do you usually think you already know how things are
going to come out? Are you willing to try something new? These are the
questions to ask to assess your openness and to determine the benefits you
might derive from this practice